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      Found a bug?  Feature not working as it should?  Have a question about how to use the forums, a resource on the site, or the chat rooms?  This is the place to get help.

       

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  2. Issue-Specific Support Forums

    1. Suicide Prevention

      Most transgender people have attempted suicide at least once in their lives. If you have, please lend your support here to those who are having a bad time now. Suicide is never the answer. If you are suicidal, call the Trans Lifeline at (877) 565-8860 in the US or (877) 330-6366 in Canada. In the UK, call the Samaritans free on 116 123, or log in to our live chat room and ask to speak with a crisis moderator.

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    2. Alcohol Abuse Support Forum

      A support forum for those who have problems with alcohol.

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    3. Drug Abuse Support Forum

      A forum to get help and support if you have drug issues.

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    4. Sexual Abuse and Assault Support Forum

      If you have ever been the victim of sexual abuse, molestation, violent sexual assault, or other sexual violation, you will find help and support here.

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    5. Cutting and Self-Harm Support Forum

      Cutting and other forms of self-harm are an epidemic among transgender teens. This is a support and prevention forum to discuss issues related to these topics.

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    6. Eating Disorders Support Forum

      A forum to discuss and get support if you have - or think you have - an eating disorder such as anorexia, bulimia, binge eating disorder, or compulsive over-eating.

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    7. Victims of Hate Crimes and Violence

      This is a forum to discuss hate and violent crimes against transgender people. It is also a place for victims to talk about what happened to them and gain help and support. Nearly 95% of crimes against us are never reported. If you are a victim, please report it here.

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  3. General Transgender Forums

    1. General Forum

      You may discuss any general topic here.  Religion and politics discussions must be held in their appropriate forums only.

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    2. Introductions Forum

      Welcome!  Tell us about yourself!

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    3. Military Veterans and Active-Duty Service Members

      A place for transgender military veterans and active-duty service members to discuss experiences, benefits, and laws that affect us.

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    4. Coming Out

      A place to discuss coming out to family, friends, and co-workers.

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    5. Research Studies

      From time to time, TransPulse approves academic research studies to solicit input from our community.  Information on these studies will be posted here.

       

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    6. Member Poetry

      You may post your transgender-related poetry here.  Any poetry posted must be your own and any copyright held must be held by you.  Copyright infringements will be removed as soon as a moderator becomes aware of it, without notice.

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  4. Transition Support Forums

    1. General Transition Issues

      This is an all-gender presentations forum. Issues discussed here can affect any member of the forum, such as the WPATH Standards of Care. 

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    2. Therapy and Therapists

      Forum to discuss therapy and its effects.

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    3. What Am I? I'm Not Sure.

      New to the site?  Not sure of your identity?  You are not alone.  This is a forum without judgment.  Ask your questions without fear.

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    4. Androgyne and Multigender Forums

      Androgyny is marked by characteristics of both genders resulting in a non-gendered or gender-neutral appearance.

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    5. Crossdresser Discussions

      A discussion group for crossdressers.

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    6. Female to Male (FtM) Discussions

      A place to discuss topics related to transitioning from female to male.

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    7. Male to Female (MtF) Discussions

      A place to discuss issues related to transitioning from male to female.

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    8. Intersex Discussions

      An intersex individual is a person (or individual of any unisex species) who is born with genitalia and/or secondary sexual characteristics of indeterminate sex, or which combine features of both sexes.

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    10. Passing As Your Target Gender

      A discussion forum about passing as your true gender.

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    11. Hormone Replacement Therapy

      A place to discuss hormone replacement therapy and its effects.

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    12. Transition Product Info

      This forum is for information about and reviews of products you use in order to feel more authentic during your transition.  Packers, breast forms, whatever it may be - share your experiences here.  Remember, we do not allow advertisements or sales pitches.

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    13. Real Life Test Discussions

      A place to discuss transition: legal, workplace, name change, driver's license issues, and more. Tips and tricks on getting through a year or two as another gender.

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    14. Transgender Surgeries

      The place to talk about gender affirming surgeries you've had or are planning to have, get physician recommendations, and more.

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    15. Post-Op Discussions

      A place to discuss specific issues or general living after undergoing sex reassignment surgery.

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    16. Transgender Issues

      A forum for discussion of general transgender issues.

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    17. WPATH Standards of Care

      A place to discuss the existing standards of care and how they apply to us.

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    18. Health Issues

      This forum is a place to discuss the various aches, pains, and other complaints we all have.  Please avoid playing doctor or applying your diagnosis or treatment to other members' situations - only a visit to a qualified health care professional can determine the right course of treatment.

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    19. Diet and Exercise

      Many people understand that it is difficult to lose weight after starting hormones.  This a forum to discuss diet and exercise during and after medical transition.

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    20. Fashion

      A place to discuss fashion for all members, including clothing questions, sizing, and more.

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    21. Beauty

      Discuss beauty and cosmetics tips and tricks here.

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    22. Transgender, Transsexual, Crossdresser Teens Forum

      This is the place for any Transgender Teen to post. Topics may be posted only by member aged 13-24, however any member may reply to offer Support. No exchanging personal info, real names, addresses, email or phone numbers.

       

      To post a new message in this forum you must be aged 13 to 24, or a moderator, ages may change later. Any member though may post a PUBLIC reply and we encourage them to give you the benefit of their experience. Sexual issues may not be discussed in this forum.

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  5. Career and Workplace Issues

    1. Job Search

      Searching for work is one of the biggest challenges faced by the transgender community.  Here you can ask for advice on the process.

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    2. Academia

      If you're a student or if you work in the education field, this is the forum to discuss issues surrounding your work.

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    3. Corporate and Office Environments

      This forum is a catch-all for the nine-to-fivers, whether you're an administrative assistant, an executive, or anywhere in between.

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    4. Health Care and Social Services

      If you work in health care, social services, hospice, or another related industry, your workplace questions can be addressed here.

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    5. Law Enforcement and Emergency Response

      Law enforcement and corrections officers, firefighters, EMS employees, dispatchers, and others who work in emergency response can use this forum to discuss their workplace issues.

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    6. Service and Hospitality Industries

      Retail, food service, restaurant, hotel, and other service industry employees can find help with their workplace issues here.

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    7. Other Fields

      If your career field doesn't have a specific category above, you can get advice on workplace issues here.

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  6. News, Activism, Politics, and Events

    1. News

      This is the place to discuss news topics that affect our community. Discussions related to politics and activism should be posted here as well. This is also the place to list upcoming conferences and other gatherings.

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    2. Uplifting News

      A place for news and events that lift the spirits.

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    3. Politics

      Discussion forum for political topics, both general and specific to the transgender community.

      This is a forum that is non-biased/non-partisan and treats every persons position on topics equally. This forum is not aligned to any political party. In today's politics, many ideas are split between and even within all the political parties. Often we find ourselves agreeing on one platform but some topics break our mold. We are here to discuss them in a civil political debate.

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    4. Transgender Activism

      Transgender activism and protests.

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    5. Events, Conferences, and Gatherings

      Events and conferences of interest to the trans community.

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  7. Spirituality

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      Buddhism.

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    2. Christianity

      Christianity, all sects.

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    4. Hinduism

      Hinduism.

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    6. Judaism

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    7. Two-Spirit

      Two-Spirit faiths, both Native American and other.

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    8. Wicca

      Wicca.

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    9. Other Faiths

      Other religions and spiritual beliefs.
       

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    10. Non-Deistic Spirituality

      Non-deistic spirituality.

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  8. Entertainment

    1. Movies

      Discuss and review movies.  Nothing beyond an "R" rating.

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    2. Television

      What do you - or don't you - like on TV, cable, and streaming services?

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    3. Theatre

      What do you - or don't you - like in or about the Theatre? Are you involved with your local AmDram or a professional Actor?

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    4. Jokes and Humor

      Jokes and humor. Keep it clean. No ethnic or other derogatory jokes. What makes you laugh?

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    5. Games and Gaming

      Board games, card games, video games - you name it.  What do you play?

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    6. Books

      Books and book reviews, favorite authors, favorite genres, and more.

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    7. Stories Written by You

      If you have written a story, or have ideas for a story, that you would like to share with others, then this is the place for them.

      Please remember that they must be PG13 or under.

      If you use other's characters, then a disclaimer MUST be added to the start of the story, something along the lines "I do not claim <character name(s)> as my characters, I'm just borrowing them and receive no income from doing so. All copyrights are freely acknowledged and respected."

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    8. Videos

      A place for your YouTube and other video links.  PG13 or below.  No underwear shots.  People must be fully clothed.  Instructional videos related to the trans community should also be posted here.

      Note that profanity in such videos is not allowed, we wish to remain a clean site, viewable by all. Whilst we accept that once a video has played, many other videos are shown over which you have no control over the content of these.

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    9. Music

      What sort of music do you - or don't you - enjoy?

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    10. Artwork

      This is for your artwork, not someone else's copyrighted art.  Because of bandwidth limits, you should use the insert image option and link to the image on your Photobucket, Imgur, or other storage account, or your own web space.  Images uploaded to the forum will be deleted.  Images must be site friendly / age-suitable or they will be deleted.

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    11. Gadgets and Tech

      This is a place to discuss the ever-changing landscape of technology.

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      That's what I'm thinking,  if we can't use women's washroom facilities,  or men's,  where are we supposed to go? When I first came out to y boss, I brought up this issue,  that women colleagues may not be comfortable with me using their toilets and I would feel uncomfortable using the men's? Which I do now, but in work I am still presenting as a male, and I don’t use the urinals, I use the cubicle, which is basically the sage as using the ladies,  lol?  I said, I'll use the disabled toilet,  but everytime I've gone to use them, they sre locked? I'll bring this issue up again with my boss, and see where I stand? It's sods law, I'm 62 years of age and only just had the courage to cone out, then they change this law? When im out and about, presenting as a woman,  I use the women's toilets  with no problems,  I think I pass as an older woman wuite well?
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      So my GF isn't coming home this weekend.  At least she said something about it.    Her business isn't finished yet, she's supervising shipment of....stuff?  She's traveling at least part of the way home on a cargo ship, so she can watch over it being transferred from one ship to another at a port.  Stuff doesn't ship directly from Eastern Europe to the USA, apparently.    I've been handling GF's kids pretty much full time since she left, and I'm more tired than usual.  They're normally rowdy, but with GF gone they act like they're going to annex Crimea or something.  I even administered a spanking this afternoon, which was a first for me.   I love both GF and the kids, but some days I really lack the patience for all of them. 
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      Minors are minors for a reason - they don't know quite what they're doing.  They're trying out life, seeing what fits.  Its why we don't let minors drink, smoke, drive after curfew, get tattoos, get cosmetic surgeries, or have sex.  And for some reason, being LGBTQ+ seems to be "cool" among the youth these days.  And its almost cool for every kid to have some sort of struggle or disorder or trauma, which is strange.  I remember when it wasn't cool.  Not sure which situation is better - what I grew up with or what we have now. 
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      Actually, I believe it does, 100%.  And we have the right to tell such speakers what we think of it 😉  Kinda how it works.     Trade deals are voluntary, conducted between governments.  They'll figure it out, I guess? I have no issues with Trump using trade as a tool, its just stupid and frustrating that he uses LGBTQ issues as a negotiating point instead of something useful and worthwhile. 
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      Interesting word 😄  I have run into that sort before.  Usually their first objection to me and my family is that my husband has 4 wives (plus me).  The 1950s nuclear family is a decent model, but not quite everybody's reality.... At a certain point, you just gotta do your own thing.     Seems like you're fitting in pretty well, and coming out overall shouldn't be difficult or traumatic. And you've got a good family and a good partner.     
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      Free speech means to the right "free to spew hate speech."  I hope that the UK leadership does not cave to his bullying, but the Fearless Leader is a very good, very effective bully.  A much better bully than he is a business man.   Carolyn Marie
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      This British Supreme Court decision will not make a direct impact on my life, but, as with the Cass Report, it will embolden conservatives worldwide to further attack Trans Rights. The court action for the anti trans side was supposedly funded by JK Rowling, and it was always an uphill battle to defend. Most dictionaries defined 'Woman" as Adult Female Human, and Female as having gametes (eggs) which can be fertilised by Male Gametes (Sperm). Within these parameters, the court outcome should have been expected. Of course this excludes many females who cannot produce viable gametes (eggs) for a plethora of different reasons, meaning the definition of Female is wholly inadequate. Genes cannot be relied on as a 46 XY woman has conceived and delivered babies ( https://pmc.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/articles/PMC2190741/) , so there needs to be a holistic review of traditional definitions to ensure they are accurate and inclusive. Most laws are written with the traditionally inadequate terminology, and this Supreme Court finding will  encourage governments to bow to pressure to exclude trans people from 'womens' spaces. Trying to argue against the existing terminology is a waste of time and effort. We need to push for new terminologies to include all people with the argument that it is unacceptable to leave entire sectors of people with no legal definition. Hugs, Allie
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      Considering what has happened to his trade deals with California so far, he has got to get one somewhere.  He has a perfect record here so far.  =0  I wish the British the same success. 
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      I know the horrible area feeling well, or at least I did for the first 13 years of my life. The bible belt is the only hell that truly exists, invented by what I call Talibangelicals.
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      Congratulations on your move to come out!   And I commiserate on the Supreme Court's ruling.  Such a backward step when they could be standing up to the orange twit and his minions.  Stay strong.
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    • Ivy
      Trump is requiring the United Kingdom to get rid of laws protecting LGBTQ people before he will agree to a trade deal with them.   https://www.independent.co.uk/news/uk/politics/trump-jd-vance-trade-deal-free-speech-b2733806.html   The arrogance of these people is astounding.
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    • KathyLauren
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