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By Graceful Curves · Posted
I completely agree with your viewpoint. I believe we do reincarnate multiple times, and each of those experiences are absorbed into our True Essence. We're not consciously aware of those other lifetimes, because "the rules" say we have to concentrate on our present life. So we are covered with a temporary "veil of forgetfulness." I am definitely the "old soul" type and always have been. I'm sure I've been both male and female before-- I definitely have a certain female essence. To what degree our present tendencies are spiritual or physiological in nature I cannot tell. This is how I picture my Higher Self in the disincarnate, divine realm. (A.I. photo based on my actual physical features). -
By Carolyn Marie · Posted
You have PM privileges now, Dexxter. If you put your cursor over a member's name, a box will open and "message" will appear on the bottom left. Or you can go to a member's profile page and you'll see "message" near the top. Carolyn Marie -
By MaeBe · Posted
I would probably have felt the need to be jealous about this years ago. I had a pretty average build for a guy but for the boobs. :D -
By MaeBe · Posted
I read the article. It doesn't sound like she's seeking pity, but doing exactly what she said she's not doing...being an activist. This is activism! She's very brave and, while the laws are beyond the pale of stupid, she should expect this treatment. I hope that if she does end up in jail that she doesn't suffer, but I image she will in some manner. Laws have to be tested, bad laws especially. But I won't hold my breath for Florida to do any soul searching because of this; I fully expect a jackbooted response. -
By awkward-yet-sweet · Posted
Clothing has never really been a big deal for me. I'm AFAB, and in my girl form it was mostly just jeans and t-shirts. In my boy form there isn't much difference. Probably the best thing about my boy form is that it is much more acceptable to go shirtless in warm weather. It also seems to make me pass better. Nobody assumes female gender when you aren't wearing a sure. At least, as long as your flat like me So my warm weather look is basically just shorts and sandals. I would be most comfortable without the shorts, but Society is not that accepting yet -
By MaeBe · Posted
The first time dressing fully feminine was a disaster for me. Not because some bigot got in my face, luckily, it's because the night started with me going home, changing, and taking off all of my makeup and nail polish. Before that though, I was SUPER giddy and a little nervous. I wrote a big long post about it, but I've since had my thread taken down thanks to the current political climate. I learned on that day I couldn't go back, so at least I learned something from the experience. The next day I committed to a permanent femme presentation. It was probably a bit anxiety inducing at the start, but my wardrobe is pretty conservative and small due to being unemployed and moving cross country so I've not been very bold. I'll probably feel super anxious again the first time I wear a dress out (damn my square shoulders!). I still haven't done that, don't even own one. Skirts? Check. High waisted skinny jeans? Yup. Body con tops? All the time. In fact I hate boxy, baggy clothes that I used live in. These days, my dysphoria keeps me from going out dressed masc at all--I'm not a boy and I don't want to signal I am in any way. Like today, I am wearing a simple grey hoodie from a brewery but...I'm wearing leggings (I plan on hopping on the Peloton later) and my hair nicely combed with a headband and I HAD to conceal my dark circles, but plain otherwise. It's very normal now, I barely own any "masc typical" clothing. Those are t-shirts and you could question those as being masc at all, but they're sized bigger and I only use them as sleep shirts. My favorite t-shirts and the only ones worn out are the two my wife handed down to me, they are women's cut. -
By awkward-yet-sweet · Posted
Pretty much. Civil Disobedience always comes with legal consequences until the law gets changed. Will acts of Civil Disobedience like this one cause the change she is seeking? No idea. Maybe it could help, maybe it could hurt. It does seem that she understood the risk. It will be interesting to see what legal consequences she faces. 60 days in jail? If the government does that, it is pretty excessive for somebody washing her hands. Definitely could backfire on the state. They might just let her walk with a warning. I definitely agree that such laws are a huge risk to anybody who's appearance deviates from expected gender norms. -
By Dexxter Valentine Graves · Posted
I'm intrigued and would ask but you said you didn't want to get into it here and so far I haven't found a way to like message anyone privatly -
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By Hols · Posted
Thank you so much everyone. I never even thought about a gender therapist, it’s definitely something I’ll look into. but already I’m feeling so at ease by all your comments that my story will resonate. I guess there’s still alot of work to be done in society to support anyone who isn’t the “norm” but if I feel this way and other do to (not just about being trans) then is the norm the norm or are people just following to not be different. I guess that’s part of a much deeper conversation and I’m off on a tangent again. but thank you again for your kind words. I came across this site by accident but already feel better getting somethings off my chest so thank you -
By KathyLauren · Posted
Hi, Hollie. Your story sounds very familiar and I know it will resonate with a lot of us. Don't feel trapped by your age. I only figured it out at 62, and that is not uncommon. So you are still young and can have many good years ahead. I do agree with April's suggestion to talk to a gender therapist. Even if you decide to change nothing about your life, just having a sympathetic ear to listen to you. We will of course listen and help in any way we can, but having someone in real life helps more. Regards, Kathy -
By MaryEllen · Posted
Hello Hols, Welcome to TransgenderPulse. Thank you for sharing your story with us. A story that many of us can relate to. You'll find us to be a friendly and supportive group. Feel free to browse around and post to whatever you have thoughts and/or questions about. MaryEllen
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